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Top 5 Most Instagramable Natural Spots in Oregon

Oregon is hands down one of my favorite places in the US. It’s almost as diverse as California, yet rivals it when it comes to changing seasons. I just had the opportunity to spend my Thanksgiving week properly visiting Portland. And while Portland is a cool little city, I kept finding myself drawn to Oregon’s nature. The Pacific North West is one of the best places in the country for mountains, pine trees, and even beaches, and I’ve compiled a list of my favorite natural places in Oregon to photograph (or, those that I’ve been to so far).

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Geotag Disclaimer: if you choose to use geotags on your Instagram feed, please be responsible, and keep local secrets you find that aren’t on this list, well, secret. Geotags have the tendency to draw crowds and ruin natural spaces, so in line with Leave No Trace, let’s leave no map too.

So, grab your camera or phone, don’t forget a good snack, and hop in the car. This ride’s about to get insanely pretty.

Crater Lake National Park

Crater Lake National Park

Haystack Rock

While this one might be a bit obvious to those of you engrossed in the crazy world of Instagram, it’s a spot that tops many Oregon travelers’ bucket lists by a long shot. Located on Cannon Beach, Haystack Rock is a huge rock formation known for its famous reflection in the sand. This is easily one of the most popular spots in Oregon, and for good reason. The Oregon coast is a famous stretch of coastline, and this is easily the most famous beach on the drive.

Cannon Beach is a dog friendly beach, and has free parking only a couple blocks away. It’s only about an hour from Portland, and is super easy to find.

A tip for my vanlifers: It’s a bit (and by a bit, I actually mean a lot) hard to find affordable camping, let alone safe boondocking spots, so if you’re living that vanlife, you might want to dive up over the state line and stay at the rest stop that’s 40 minutes away.

Haystack Rock on Cannon Beach, Oregon Coast

Haystack Rock on Cannon Beach, Oregon Coast

Hoyt Arboretum

If you’re staying in Portland, this is an awesome place to go to lose yourself amongst the PNW’s famous pine trees and redwoods. The Hoyt Arboretum is located within Washington Park, and is basically a living museum. You can grab a map at the visitor center, or just wander the marked trails. Each area of the park features a different type of tree, from redwoods to maple. This was actually the first time my family was able to snag a glimpse of our West Coast redwoods.

The Hoyt Arboretum is completely dog friendly, and free to enter, but you do have to pay for parking. You can hike about a mile (one way) to Pittock Mansion from the visitor center if you want a view of the city too!

Redwood Deck in the Hoyt Arboretum, Portland

Redwood Deck in the Hoyt Arboretum, Portland

Smith Rock State Park

Located about 30 minutes outside of Bend, Smith Rock State Park is known by rock climbers across the country. I am not a rock climber, and I came here with a friend from the road when we both happened to be in Bend. There are quite a few hiking trails here for all hiking abilities, if you’re not into climbing, and there are spectacular views all around. This is the best place for you to head if you’re in Oregon and craving some desert-esque landscapes. It reminded me of this park in Los Angeles that I used to visit with my parents called Vasquez Rocks (which I largely credit my love of the outdoors to).

Smith Rock does allow dogs and has paid camping available.

Smith Rock State Park

Smith Rock State Park

Crater Lake

I’ve talked about Crater Lake a couple times on here, but it’s the deepest lake in the country, so how could it not make it onto this list? With its deep, blue water and towering pine trees, Crater Lake is far more than just a lake. This National Park includes a beautiful scenic drive, volcanic-formed pinnacles, and a little island dubbed Wizard Island. Even if you’re not a big hiker, you’ll be able to grab some of the best and bluest shots to fill that ‘gram with at Crater Lake.

A tip for my vanlifers: Lost Creek Campground is a bit out of the way, but only costs $5 a night! It gets super cold, even in the summer, so make sure you have the right gear!

Crater Lake National Park, aka one of the coldest days I’ve spent on the road so far

Crater Lake National Park, aka one of the coldest days I’ve spent on the road so far

Multnomah Falls:

On the same level of Insta-popularity as Haystack Rock, you’ve likely seen a picture or two of Multnomah Falls come across your feed. This was a bucket list item of mine for a long time. Multnomah Falls is part of the Columbia River Gorge area, on National Forest Land, and is a 620 foot tall two-tiered waterfall that features a bridge. You can hike to the top, or you can get that perfect shot from the bottom (it was raining, so my family chose the latter).

There is free parking just across the street, and the falls is a dog friendly area. Just a few minutes down the road, you’ll find Wahkeena Falls as well, another large waterfall in the area with a hiking trail.

Multnomah Falls in late November

Multnomah Falls in late November

There are plenty of super beautiful spots throughout Oregon, but these are easily my favorites I’ve been to so far. Oregon in itself is incredibly pretty, so make sure you get off that beaten path a little bit too.


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My Top 10 Favorite US States

If you follow me on Instagram, you’ll know that my bio announces that I’ve been for 49 of the 50 US states. Because of that, two of the most common questions I get on basically every platform are “what state are you missing?” and “what are your favorite states?” Well, the one I’m missing is Alaska, and there’s a maybe chance that it might be in the plans for 2020 (but nothing’s official yet). The harder question to answer is which states are my favorite, and the reason for that is because the US is so diverse. Every state has something unique to offer, but there are 10 that stand out above the other 39 I’ve been to.

Here are my top 10 US states:

Joshua Tree National Park, CA

Joshua Tree National Park, CA

10: Minnesota

When I reached Minnesota on while I was traveling over the summer, it was one of the northernmost destinations I had on my list. I was heading to Voyageurs National Park, which was located right on the Canadian Border. When I was driving north, I remember feeling like I’d finally accomplished something. Minnesota was one of the prettiest states I’ve been to. The entire thing is lined with pine trees, and the highway to the national park was one of the most unique drives I’ve done. The trails in the national park often overlook lake Kabetogama, and provide views of Canada on the other side. The people in Minnesota were also super nice, and made it really easy to enjoy my time there.

Lake Kabetogama, Voyageurs National Park, MN

Lake Kabetogama, Voyageurs National Park, MN

9: Washington

This was a strange one to put on this list for me. While it’s incredibly similar to Oregon in terms of its landscape, it had a very different energy. Washington has a bit of a spooky vibe, and it turns out, it’s actually known for UFO and ghost sightings. The national parks here are absolutely gorgeous. Olympic is super unique, and is home to multiple different landscapes: from mountains, to lakes, to beaches, to rain forests. North Cascades is a unique free park interspersed with national forest land. Mount Rainier is home to glaciers, an impressive mountain, and tons of wildlife. Washington does have a ton to offer, but it’s a very different feeling than the other PNW state, which I’ll get to later on this list.

Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park, Shore Section, WA

Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park, Shore Section, WA

8: Maine

Maine is actually going to be the only eastern state on this list. That doesn’t mean I don’t like the east coast, it’s just that most of the east coast is known for their cities, and I’m a nature girl. I absolutely loved Maine though. As I drove into Maine, I saw my first “moose crossing” sign, and it was the first time I saw pine forests since leaving Colorado nearly two months prior, so it’s got a special place in my heart for that reason. Maine really is absolutely gorgeous. It’s a mixture of pine forests and ocean, and Acadia National Park is a gorgeous and unique small park. The people were nice, everywhere was beautiful, and it had some of the best early morning sunrises I’ve ever seen.

Acadia National Park, ME (and the Atlantic Ocean)

Acadia National Park, ME (and the Atlantic Ocean)

7: Utah

I absolutely loved Utah. It’s home to five incredible national parks, including Bryce, which holds the largest collection of hoodoos in the world. The entire state feels a bit like a national park though, and the highways bring you through green mountains, big cities, and rolling farmland. The entire state, from bottom to top is absolutely gorgeous, from the national parks in the southern half of the state to the mountains you can see from something as simple as a Starbucks in Logan.

The famous hoodoos of Bryce Canyon National Park, UT

The famous hoodoos of Bryce Canyon National Park, UT

6: Wyoming

I’ve written about Wyoming a few times now, and that just means it had to make it on this list. Wyoming is one of my favorite mountain states. Wyoming simply has some of the most unique landscapes in the country, from active volcanoes in Yellowstone, to long extinct ones at Devils Tower. This state is super diverse in its wilderness, morphing from the high mountains of the Tetons to the almost-desert of Fossil Butte in the southern part of the state. It’s also home to some of the most diverse wildlife in the country. Here, you can see bears (grizzly and black bears), moose, bison, eagles, elk, and even wolves. Needless to say, if you love nature, Wyoming is the place for you.

Bison hanging out in Yellowstone National Park, WY

Bison hanging out in Yellowstone National Park, WY

5: Arizona

Arizona was actually the place I chose for my first solo trip. I went to the Grand Canyon solo during my last spring break ever, and it was one of the best experiences of my life. Arizona is a beautiful state, and one that truly feels unique from its neighboring California landscape. Between its red rocks and the fact that its home to one of the Earth’s natural wonders, Arizona is one of the most beautiful southwestern states. Here, you’ll find classic saguaro cactuses, unique rock formations, and plenty of tourists, which just goes to show you that this state is just incredible. It’s popular for a reason.

This view will make you cry, Grand Canyon National Park, AZ

This view will make you cry, Grand Canyon National Park, AZ

4: Hawaii

Hawaii is an old favorite of mine. I’ve been traveling to Hawaii since childhood, and its landscapes never fail to blow me away. I’ve been to three of the four main islands, and by far, Maui is my favorite. Here, I have memories of learning to surf, eating too much shave ice, and jumping off of black rock into the reef and crystal blue ocean below. Hawaii is simply one of the best vacation destinations in the country, and while Maui is my favorite, the other two islands I’ve been to, Kauai and Oahu have been beautiful as well.

Black Rock on Kaanapali Beach, Maui, Hawaii (photo ca. 2012)

Black Rock on Kaanapali Beach, Maui, Hawaii (photo ca. 2012)

3: Montana

Montana is home to my favorite place on Earth, Glacier National Park. Glacier is an absolutely gorgeous mountain park that’s home to some of the only glaciers in the continental US. Here, I hiked my favorite hike ever: Grinnell Glacier. Other than Glacier National Park, Montana is actually gorgeous. As you enter the state from Wyoming, you’ll be greeted by Big Sky Montana, an open, vast expanse of land with, well, some of the biggest sky you’ve ever seen. I also had the privilege of staying a night in Bozeman, a cute little outdoorsy town surrounded by national forest land. Montana is truly a nature-lover’s paradise, and is more than worth exploring.

Grinnell Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

Grinnell Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

2: Oregon

I’ve been to Oregon three times now, and I’m actually writing this from an Airbnb in Portland. Oregon is such a beautiful state full of my favorite forested landscape, without the weird Washington vibes. It’s home to Portland, a quirky little PNW city, the Oregon coast, the outdoorsy town of Bend, the climber’s paradise of Smith Rock State Park, and of course, the deepest lake in the country: Crater Lake. Crater Lake was absolutely stunning, but also one of the coldest places I’ve been, so make sure you have the right gear! Oregon simply seems like it’s full of endless adventures, and it’s a place that I don’t think I’ll ever get sick of visiting.

Multnomah Falls, Portland, OR

Multnomah Falls, Portland, OR

1: California

Okay, so I might be biased, but my home state is the best state in the country. It’s so huge, and spans the most diverse landscapes within one state. Here, you’ll find desert, mountains, forests (including the world’s tallest trees, the redwoods), cities, and of course, beaches. California is home to nine national parks, including a volcano, and the state includes one of the most beautiful scenic drives in the country: Highway 1 through Big Sur. California truly has a little something for everybody, no matter what you’re traveling for.

Glacier Point, Yosemite, CA

Glacier Point, Yosemite, CA

Coming up with this list was actually super hard. I love everywhere I’ve been for different reasons, even the places I say I hated. The thing is, traveling gives everyone a unique experience, and we have to appreciate it for that. Every destination is going to leave a different impression on every traveler, and the US is home to such uniqueness that everyone is bound to have their own unique experience.


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How to Prepare for Your First Solo Trip

Solo travel is all the rage these days, particularly solo female travel. This heavily comes from social media’s influence, the rise in feminism, and just generally an interest in traveling the world or living in an alternative way from the typical 9-5 lifestyle. But solo travel is something that take a bit more planning than a trip you’d generally take with your friends and family, and while there’s so much more freedom that comes from traveling alone, there’s a lot you have to keep in mind too.

Of course, many of these tips aren’t solo female travel specific, it’s just that that’s my area of expertise, and honestly, women have to think about a lot more than men do when it comes to safety.

Hole-In-The-Wall, Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park, WA

Hole-In-The-Wall, Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park, WA

Solo travel is safer than you think

The only way to stay completely out of danger is to stay home, and for me, at least, that’s just not an option. The thing is, being solo and far from home isn’t all that more dangerous than walking to the grocery store down the street in the neighborhood you grew up in. It’s all about confidence, research, and being aware of your surroundings.

I constantly get questions about traveling by myself, and it’s often from people who have never tried it. It’s a unique experience that everyone should try to have at some point in their lives. It’s transformative, eye opening, and life-changing (and yes, those are three different things).

I’ve now spent three months of my life traveling and living on the road full time by myself. I’ve come across some of the most beautiful places in the country, some situations my gut didn’t feel great about, and grizzly bears. Every destination is unique, but here are some tips that will get you ready for any solo trip you could be dreaming of.

For more about why I travel solo, click HERE.

Hidden Lake Overlook Trail, Glacier National Park, Montana, and the moment I realized I finished my 52 Hike Challenge

Hidden Lake Overlook Trail, Glacier National Park, Montana, and the moment I realized I finished my 52 Hike Challenge

1: Do your research.

Before I left on my three month solo trip, I did about a year’s worth of research. Of course, for a short trip, or even a long one like mine, you don’t need to be that obsessed, but it’s super important to do your research. While there’s beauty in showing up to a place and not having any expectations, save that for when you’re more confident in your solo traveling abilities. For your first trip, try to have accommodations lined up, know the area, and try to learn a little about the history of the place you’re going before you even hit the road. My first solo trip was to Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona, and before I even decided to leave, I knew how far the drive would be, how much money to be carrying, where my campsite was (that I’d booked in advance, which I almost never do now), where the visitor center would be, and how good my car’s gas mileage was.

Of course, leave some things to be a surprise. Don’t flood your brain with hundreds of pictures of the Grand Canyon—that could take away from the actual experience. The point of the research is to help you with tip #2.

Okay, but here’s one picture of the Grand Canyon…

Okay, but here’s one picture of the Grand Canyon…

2: Carry yourself with confidence.

I’ve found that when I walk like I know where I’m going, even in a city I’ve never been to, I’m bothered far less. It’s when I’m desperately staring at Google Maps that people try to talk to me or street vendors start bothering me to buy things, because then I look like a tourist. As you travel alone more, this confidence becomes far more natural, but as someone just starting out, act like you’re in a routine. Pretend like you know exactly where you are, or what you’re doing, even if you’ve never been there before and you couldn’t recite the name of the street you’re on to save your life. And if you do need help, ask someone who looks trustworthy, like a police officer, store owner, or mom.

Peek-a-Boo Loop Trail, Bryce Canyon National Park, UT

Peek-a-Boo Loop Trail, Bryce Canyon National Park, UT

3: And carry something for self-defense.

Of course, this doesn’t mean it’s dangerous to travel solo, it’s simply that having something to grab in case of emergency makes me feel safer and calmer sleeping alone in my vehicle. While not everyone travels the same way I do, it’s super important to carry something that makes you feel safe. This can be anything from pepper spray to a knife to bear spray (although it is a felony to use bear spray on a person, safety doesn’t just have to do with defending yourself from other people—animals are a thing too).

Mount Rainier National Park, WA

Mount Rainier National Park, WA

4: Don’t be afraid to ask strangers for photos.

Solo travelers everywhere know that one of the hardest things about traveling alone is not being able to take pictures of yourself. Of course, a tripod or selfie stick can do the job, and so can the good ol’ classic selfie move, but sometimes you want those artsy, insta-worthy pics and you just can’t get them right if you’re the one taking the photo. Don’t be afraid to ask people to take pictures. I usually try to ask someone with a professional camera (to take one on my device not theirs), because they often know how to properly frame a shot. If you’re worried about safety, ask a mom with kids, or offer to take someone’s picture first—they’ll often want to return the favor.

A stranger took this photo for me at Inspiration Point in Grand Tetons National Park, WY.

A stranger took this photo for me at Inspiration Point in Grand Tetons National Park, WY.

5: Overpack.

This seems silly, but since you won’t have another person with you, it’s important to have everything you might need. When I traveled across the country, I had so much with me that I didn’t need. But this also means making sure you have enough cash, your passport, even if you think you don’t need it, and extra medicine if you take any, just in case you run out far from home.

On top of this, make sure you have the right gear and know how to use it. Don’t plan a camping trip if you’ve never pitched a tent before, but also, it’s not impossible to learn new skills, so don’t let not knowing stop you from doing! Just make sure that pitching that tent for the first time doesn’t happen at your campsite.

Doyle River Falls Trail, Shenandoah National Park, VA

Doyle River Falls Trail, Shenandoah National Park, VA

6: Download some apps.

Depending on the type of travel, there are some great apps that will help you out. Google Assistant is great at translations, iOverlander is helpful for finding safe spots to park if you’re living that vanlife, and Roadtrippers can help you accurately plan a route and do research. There are so many resources out there, so just find the one that works for you!

Grinnell Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

Grinnell Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

I could honestly go on and on about solo travel, how magical it is, and how safe I felt on the road, but I’ll save that for another blog post. These are my main tips for traveling alone, and if I had to give one last piece of advice, it would be to just surrender to it all. Even if you’re well researched, not everything is going to go as planned, so allow yourself to be open to it, because only then will the transformative experience of traveling alone have its affect on you.


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My Top 5 Favorite Campgrounds

Even though I do a lot of free camping in my vehicle, there’s something I absolutely love about staying in a campground. From the amenities to safety to that good campground getaway vibe, there’s nothing I don’t love about getting to stay in the middle of a beautiful place like a National or State Park.

I’ve stayed in so many campgrounds, I couldn’t even count them if I tried, but these are the five that have made the biggest impression on me. They put you right in the middle of some of the prettiest landscapes in the US, and they’re all incredibly unique. Of course, a lot of them are in more touristy places, but that doesn’t mean they’re not the best way to experience those places for yourself. So, pack a warm sleeping bag, tent, and some firewood, and let’s hit the road.

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Many Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

Many Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

5: Atl Atl Campground in Valley of Fire State Park, NV

It was so hard to put this one at number five, and the only reason I did is because if you visit in the summer like me, the potable water in the campground is too hot to drink. Atl Atl Campground is located right in the middle of Valley of Fire’s beautiful red rocks. It costs $20 for a site, and includes drinking water, showers, and after park hours access. The state park actually closes at sundown, and the campers are the only ones allowed to stay later than that. Each site comes with a parking spot, tent pad, and shaded picnic table (which is super necessary if you visit in June!). This campground will give you awesome views of the Nevada desert, and one of the prettiest sunrises you’ll ever see, if you can wake up for it.

To learn more about Valley of Fire State Park, head over to the Halle’s Wandering Soul YouTube channel to watch me explore the park.

Sunrise from Atl Atl Campground, Valley of Fire State Park, NV

Sunrise from Atl Atl Campground, Valley of Fire State Park, NV

4: Canyon Campground in Yellowstone National Park, WY

This is one of the most accessible campgrounds I’ve ever stayed in. There were nice and clean bathrooms and a dish washing station right across from my site, and I got a bear box, picnic table, and fire ring. The campground came with 2 free showers per night, laundry access, and it was nearby a café with WiFi access and a gas station. It felt like a little outdoor town in the middle of the Wyoming wilderness. The only downside was the price. I had to book ahead of time (like 6 months ahead of time), and it cost $35, which isn’t ideal if you’re on a budget, or if you’re a spontaneous traveler like myself. If price isn’t an issue, though, Canyon is located in North East Yellowstone, not too far from the Lamar Valley. You’ll pass Grand Canyon of the Yellowstone on your way there from the Southern section of the park, as well as plenty of other sites like Yellowstone Lake and the Mud Volcano.

Canyon Campground, Yellowstone National Park, WY

Canyon Campground, Yellowstone National Park, WY

3: Mather Campground in the Grand Canyon, AZ

While this campground doesn’t have the canyon views you might be dreaming of for your trip to Grand Canyon National Park, the wildlife is what helped this campground make this list. Within twenty minutes of checking in, a herd of about 20 elk came through the campground snacking on the trees. They would hang out there every day, and weren’t very afraid to be in the vicinity of people.

It’s super important though, that I drop a Leave No Trace warning here: please stay at least 25 yards from all wildlife. They are wild animals, and can react like so if provoked, which can put you and the animal in danger.

From Mather, there is a super convenient shuttle system that can take you around the park so that you don’t have to worry about finding parking at trailheads or the visitor center, so definitely make sure you take advantage of that! This was also my first solo camping trip, and I felt 100% safe in Mather.

Mather costs $18 to camp in.

For more information about Mather Campground and the Grand Canyon, head to the Halle’s Wandering Soul YouTube channel.

Grand Canyon National Park, AZ (unfortunately, not the view from Mather Campground, but the view from Mather Point instead)

Grand Canyon National Park, AZ (unfortunately, not the view from Mather Campground, but the view from Mather Point instead)

2: Camp 4 in Yosemite National Park, CA

It was so hard not to put this at number one. This is one of the first campgrounds I stayed in that wasn’t part of a family camping trip, and it was one of the best experiences of my life. This is the famous climbers campground of Yosemite, and you might recognize it from documentaries like Valley Uprising. It’s walk-up only, meaning tents only, and you actually share a site with other campers. Each registered camper ($6 per person per night) will receive a bear box, but you’ll share your fire ring with the other campers in your site. This makes for an incredible environment of bonding with your neighbors, and has allowed me to make friends I still talk to. Camp 4 is accessible by shuttle, and is home to one of the toughest bouldering spots in the state.

View of Yosemite Falls from Near Camp 4, Yosemite National Park, CA

View of Yosemite Falls from Near Camp 4, Yosemite National Park, CA

1: Rising Sun in Glacier National Park, MT

Glacier National Park is number one on pretty much every list of mine, but Rising Sun Campground was actually incredible. It was “hard side only” when I was there, which meant it was closed to tent campers, so make sure you check with a ranger before camping in any part of Glacier National Park. I loved Rising Sun because it was located in East Glacier, the side of Glacier with the best views. The other campground here, St. Mary’s, requires reservations, and the other campgrounds are located in either West Glacier or Many Glacier, which are a bit out of the way of the true Glacier experience (although you need to stop in Many Glacier during your trip here—it’s incredible). Rising Sun has its own shuttle stop, restaurant, gift shop, and shower access, and costs $20. The site came with access to flush toilets and some of the best tasting campground water I’ve ever had.

Sunrise view from Rising Sun Campground, Glacier National Park, MT

Sunrise view from Rising Sun Campground, Glacier National Park, MT

Camping is the best way to truly experience the outdoors. From the red deserts of Nevada to the towering mountains of Yosemite, there are beautiful campgrounds all over the country. While these are my absolute favorites, some honorable mentions include: Jumbo Rocks Campground in Joshua Tree, Wooden Frog State Forest Campground in Minnesota, and Belle Fourche Campground in Devils Tower. So, grab your gear, hit the road, and get ready to spend a night under the stars.


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Why I Choose National Parks As a Solo Female Traveler

Based on my previous blog posts, you’ve probably noticed I’m a bit obsessed with the National Park System. Other than their obvious beauty and diversity throughout the country, there are plenty of reasons to be drawn to the National Parks. From the challenge to check them all off the list (I’ve got 33 check marks, in case anyone was counting), to access to some of the most beautiful trails in the country, the National Parks have plenty to love.

But there’s a whole other level when it comes to finding destinations to visit as a solo female traveler. There are tons of fears instilled in people’s minds about traveling as a single woman, and a lot of solo female travelers tend to stick to cities where they can stay in hostels and be in a certain amount of community. While I love hostels, cities just aren’t my jam. Cities are a bit too hectic for me, and as a person who travels by vehicle, having to find parking is just another added layer of conflict. But there’s also the fact that cities don’t feel inherently safe to me. While there are eyes everywhere, there’s also the added risk of how many people there are around you, but I’m not trying to discourage you from going to cities, I’m trying to talk about why I choose my public lands instead.

Grand Canyon National Park, from my first solo trip ever

Grand Canyon National Park, from my first solo trip ever

Admission Fees

Now, this might sound like a downside at first, so hear me out. Admission Fees are a huge reason I feel completely safe in National Parks as a solo female traveler. I personally have an America the Beautiful Pass, which is an interagency pass that gives me “free” admission to all public lands. The pass costs $80 but as long as you visit more than 3 parks in a year, it pays for itself. So, admission fees don’t really affect me all too much. The thing is, they do weed out the bad people. Everybody has to pay admission to get into a National Park. It’s highly unlikely that someone is going to pay between $25 and $35 just to do something sketchy. It’s kind of like an extra security gate that makes me feel like pretty much all of the people around me are also there to have a good time.

Artists Point, Yellowstone National Park, WY

Artists Point, Yellowstone National Park, WY

Rangers

Speaking of security, rangers are a great resource. There are a few different types of rangers, and even though only one of them is actually law enforcement, they can all help you if you find yourself in a predicament. All of them have extensive knowledge of the park, which makes me feel very confident in my location when I’m in the parks. And if you do happen to find yourself in a tricky situation (like um, locking your keys in your car in the Guadelupe Mountains), you’ll likely find help in a ranger somewhere in the park.

Mount Rainier National Park, WA

Mount Rainier National Park, WA

Ranger Programs

This is an extra special thing rangers do for their campers. I’ll admit, even though I’m living that vanlife, I do like to pay for a campsite in a National Park sometimes for the same reason I like that the parks charge admission: it makes me feel safer. But they also often come with some great perks. Other than the flush toilets and occasional shower that comes with a campsite, during peak season, a lot of campgrounds offer ranger programs. I love these because they allow me to learn more about the place I’m exploring, and can give me the chance to meet my neighbors.

Grinnell Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

Grinnell Glacier, Glacier National Park, MT

Visitor Centers and Other Resources

While you might think this falls into the “rangers” category, it’s actually quite different. The rangers are fantastic resources for finding out information about the park, but something that I love about the National Parks is that they often have museums and other ways to get information about the place, and give out free maps and guides to every visitor. These make it incredibly easy to navigate the park without asking for help, which gives me a ton of confidence when it comes to exploring on my own.

Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park Shore Section, WA

Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park Shore Section, WA

That Nature-Loving Community

Safety is a real thing, but there’s also an amazing sense of community that comes from the National Parks that you can’t really get in any other destinations in the US. Hostels come close, but everyone in hostels tends to be pretty different when it comes to hobbies and interests. I’ve met some amazing people on my travels, and my favorites have all been in National Parks. National Parks attract adventurers, explorers, photographers, writers, full time nomads, and all of them have one thing in common: a love for our natural landscapes. And because of the presence of rangers and admission fees, I feel much safer making friends in National Parks than in other atmospheres.

Acadia National Park, ME

Acadia National Park, ME

Why not National Forests?

I get a lot of questions about National Forests because it appears that they’re similar to National Parks. While National Forests are more dog friendly, they have their downsides too. National Forests are run by the USDA, not the NPS, which means their protection laws are slightly different. The USDA tends to preserve some land to be used for agriculture (not all), whereas the NPS protects land to reserve all of their land for environmental causes. The reason I don’t love National Forests as a solo female traveler is because they’re lacking a lot of the above things, particularly admission fees and rangers. National Forests feel like a bit more of a no man’s land (or no woman’s land) to me, which makes them not ideal for me as a traveler. While they do have perks like free dispersed camping and absolutely stunning landscapes, I do feel like I need to be a little more on my toes when on Forest Land versus Park Land.

Great Smoky Mountains National Park, TN/NC

Great Smoky Mountains National Park, TN/NC

Of course, if you don’t know anything about the outdoors, proceed with caution. I’m confident in National Parks because I do have the right gear, know how to do the whole outdoors thing, and do a lot of research about my destinations before I get there. These are some of the reasons I love traveling to these natural areas, but it’s also important to address that there are of course going to be safety concerns no matter where you travel, and no matter if you’re solo. The only way to be completely safe is to stay home, and when you’ve got the travel bug, that’s not exactly an option, so go with the places you feel safest, while still stepping a little bit out of your comfort zone.

To learn why I travel solo in the first place, head over to my blog post on the topic HERE.


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Top 5 Southern National Parks

With temperatures dropping in most of the country, some of the only spots you can hit without being bombarded by snow are along the southern strip of US destinations. From Southern California to the Southwest to the Deep South, there are plenty of options for the nature lover during these cold months.

It’s important to remember though, that these states do get cold, just, maybe not quite as cold as the rest of the country. Pack warm, quality gear, and remember to leave no trace.

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(Disclaimer: I unfortunately haven’t visited any of Florida’s National Parks. While I’m sure they’re beautiful, I’ve committed myself to only writing about places I’ve personally been to and experienced)

Joshua Tree National Park, CA

Joshua Tree National Park, CA

Deep South

When we think of the South, we often picture that little strip of states between Florida and Texas. While there aren’t a ton of National Park Service Sites here that actually have National Park Status, Hot Springs National Park in Arkansas is one not to be missed. This small park includes both natural areas and a downtown historic district. It got its name from the historic bath houses in the town, and when you stay in Gulpha Gorge Campground, you’ll get the best of both worlds. With trails that lead straight from the campground to the historic district, you’ll get to experience everything this little hidden gem has to offer.

Dead Chief Trail in Hot Springs National Park, AR

Dead Chief Trail in Hot Springs National Park, AR

Texas

Texas is absolutely huge, but it’s only home to two National Parks. While Guadelupe Mountains contains the highest peak in Texas, the park that has to make this list for me is Big Bend National Park. Big Bend is one of the most unique landscapes I’ve encountered (for a list of other bucket list landscapes, click HERE). From the Rio Grande River on the Mexican border to the Chisos Basin mountains up at higher elevation, this desert park is expansive and diverse with hidden gems around every corner (hello, hot spring)!

Big Bend National Park, TX

Big Bend National Park, TX

Southwest

The Southwest has got such a huge collection of National Parks, I can’t pass it up on this list. Since we’re moving westward, I’ll start with the first real cave I ever explored: Carlsbad Caverns National Park in New Mexico. Carlsbad Caverns is one of the coolest caves in the country, and is so big, it feels never-ending when you’re walking through its passages. It honestly feels like a different world, and depending on what type of explorer you are, you can either hike into the cave or take the elevator. It’s also a great place to see wildlife: every night at sundown, you can sit in the amphitheater to watch the bats fly out of the cave! Check the park website for the cutoff time for admission to the cave prior to visiting, as it varies by season.

Carlsbad Caverns National Park, NM

Carlsbad Caverns National Park, NM

Of course, I couldn’t leave Arizona off this list. While it’s at a higher elevation, which can make it the coldest park on this list, the Grand Canyon should not be passed up. While you might think it’s overrated due to its fame, there’s no place like Grand Canyon National Park. From snow on the trails in the winter months to fantastic wildlife spottings, and incredible views, Grand Canyon National Park is one of my personal favorite places on Earth. Within an hour of arriving in the park and checking into my campsite at Mather Campground (the only campground open in the off season), I was visited by a herd of about twenty elk passing through to have their lunch. This park never stopped amazing me with everything it has to offer, and everybody’s visit to the Grand Canyon is so unique, you just have to see it for yourself.

Grand Canyon National Park, AZ

Grand Canyon National Park, AZ

Southern California

Of course, if you’re looking for warm weather this time of year, California is surely on your radar. While Joshua Tree National Park does get cold (and sometimes gets snow), it’s certainly a more pleasant experience than any of the snowy mountain passes in Northern California. Joshua Tree National Park is known for its tall agave relatives, known as Joshua Trees, which look like something out of a Dr. Seuss book. It’s a climbing hotspot, and it’s far more pleasant to visit in the winter than the summer (when temps reach over 100 degrees Fahrenheit on the regular). Plan ahead when coming to this popular park, and if you want to read more about Joshua Tree, head over to my complete guide I wrote HERE.

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Joshua Tree National Park, CA

Joshua Tree National Park, CA

From the expanse of desert in Big Bend and Joshua Tree to the lengthy cave of Carlsbad Caverns, there’s plenty for the nature-lover to explore in the cold months of the year that won’t be covered in thick blankets of snow. All of these National Parks are unique from each other, and you won’t be disappointed by any of them. Just remember, it’s important to keep these spaces natural, so explore safely, and leave no trace.


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Your Guide to the National Parks of the PNW

It’s no secret that the Pacific Northwest is one of the most desirable travel destinations in the United States, especially in terms of nature. While there are plenty of beautiful hikes and natural areas to visit in Oregon and Washington, from Multnomah Falls, to Mount Hood, to Forest Park, there are also four National Parks hiding in these two beautiful states. You’ve probably heard of Mount Rainier, but what about the other three?

Well, in Washington, you’re in luck because all of the state’s National Parks are within only a few hours drive of each other, and in Oregon, Crater Lake stands as one of the most unique landscapes in the country. (For other unique bucket list locations, check out THIS ARTICLE).

This is your complete guide to all four National Parks in the PNW, so get ready for some hiking and sightseeing, it’s gonna be a beautiful ride.

Olympic National Park, Shore Section, WA

Olympic National Park, Shore Section, WA

Crater Lake, OR

I figured it might be useful to start with Crater Lake because it’s not only the smallest of the four National Parks in the PNW, but it’s also the only one in Oregon. Located in southern Oregon, Crater Lake is positioned at a very high elevation, making it only fully accessible during the warmer months. Crater Lake’s water is extremely blue, and deep, and there’s only one trail that actually allows you lake access. This is the deepest lake in the United States, and the ninth deepest lake in the world.

Crater Lake is definitely a small park. While there are plenty of little trails, which I spent my very cold day there hiking, there are only a select few longer trails, and only two campgrounds, one of which currently has no water (Lost Creek). Regardless of its size, Crater Lake is absolutely stunning. It’s only here that you’ll find water this blue surrounded by mountains, pine trees, and sometimes snow.

Crater Lake National Park, OR

Crater Lake National Park, OR

North Cascades, WA

By now, I’ve talked about North Cascades a couple times (HERE and HERE), so I’m gonna keep this short.

North Cascades is the secret National Park of Washington. It’s made up of the famous Cascade Mountains, and is interspersed with National Forest land. There are quite a few campgrounds in the North Cascades, and plenty of diverse trails to explore, and on top of that, it’s dog friendly. This is another small park, but it’s a great getaway for a few days, as there’s plenty to explore as long as you have gas in the tank.

North Cascades National Park, WA

North Cascades National Park, WA

Olympic, WA

Olympic National Park is one of Washington’s most famous National Parks, and it’s also its most diverse. Located on the Olympic Peninsula, most of the park isn’t drivable. The roads simply go around the park, cutting into each of the park’s unique landscapes: the mountains, lake, rainforest, and shore section.

I spent three nights exploring Olympic, and got to see three of these four landscapes. I spent two nights up in Fairholme Campground near Lake Crescent, and took one of those days to explore the Hoh Rainforest, the only temperate rainforest in the continental US that you can drive into. To get there from Fairholme, you simply head south through Washington’s famous city of Forks (which you might recognize from the Twilight series). This awesome spot is home to some pretty cool wildlife, like banana slugs, and you can hike through the rainforest to your heart’s content (and you can even get a backpacking permit if you want). The rainforest offers one of the most unique views of Washington’s landscape, and truly allows you to get a feel for just how diverse this strange and beautiful northern state really is.

The third night, I spent the night in a privately owned campground near Rialto Beach because it was simply the better deal than staying in Mora Campground run by the NPS. Rialto Beach is one of my favorite beaches in the country. It’s home to crazy rock formations, tidepools, fallen driftwood trees, and is surrounded by pine, making it the perfect combination of mountains and beach (aka my favorite things ever). Olympic is truly a park with something for every type of explorer, and if you don’t like one section, you can just move on to the next—they’re so different, it’ll feel like you’re in a different place entirely.

Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park, WA

Rialto Beach, Olympic National Park, WA

Mount Rainier, WA

While Mount Rainier is probably the most famous National Park in Washington, it’s definitely my favorite (which is funny because I actually spent the least amount of time here). Mount Rainier is at a very high elevation, and is pretty much always covered in snow (the mountain, not the park). From some of the hikes in the park, you’ll be able to see glaciers, wildlife such as foxes and bears, and plenty of wildflowers (most of the year).

Mount Rainier is a huge park with different sections to explore, and while I only got to see a very small part of it during my stay at White River Campground, it was one of my favorite nights on the road due to the overall landscape of the place and the welcoming rangers.

Mount Rainier does get some crazy weather. Luckily it was only raining when I was there, but there’s always a world where it might snow, so come prepared with warm clothes, and an extra warm sleeping bag (shop my favorite sleeping bag at Madera Outdoor HERE).

View of a glacier in Mount Rainier National Park, WA

View of a glacier in Mount Rainier National Park, WA

From the towering peaks of Mount Rainier to the deepest lake in the country, the Pacific Northwest is full of diverse landscapes and beautiful National Parks. The Washington National Parks are only a couple hours away from each other, and Crater Lake, while further south, will encourage you to explore its surrounding natural areas, and even cute towns like Bend. The Pacific Northwest is only just getting started in terms of being a popular tourist destination, and it’s sure to get even more popular over the years, considering its popularity on social media. So, head out now to these beautiful spaces, and enjoy the unique solitude of the northern mountains. And don’t forget to take plenty of pictures.

Top 3 Dog Friendly National Parks

We all love our dogs so much, and we’d like to bring them everywhere we go, but the sad truth is, America’s Best Idea isn’t a huge fan of Man’s Best Friend. While most of the big and famous National Parks such as Yellowstone, Glacier, and the Grand Canyon don’t allow dogs in most areas of the park (although they are allowed on the paved Rim Trail in GCNP), there are some Parks that may surprise you. I’ve visited more than half of America’s National Parks, and as a self-proclaimed dog enthusiast (or so says my insta bio), I’m always looking out for where I might be able to return later in life with my own pup. National Parks are tricky when it comes to traveling with a dog, but these are three I definitely wouldn’t miss if your dog is your travel partner.

(Since my dog is actually a family dog, he was unable to join me when I visited these parks when I was driving across the country. I did meet plenty of pups on the trails though, and it was a breath of fresh air after being away from home for so long).

North Cascades National Park, WA

North Cascades National Park, WA

Shenandoah National Park, VA

I wasn’t expecting it, but Shenandoah had quite a few dog friendly trails. Of course, dogs are always allowed in campgrounds on leash, but I was happy to see plenty on the Doyle River Falls trail. This is a great trail that leads you to three waterfalls, all of which you and your dog are allowed to swim in. You can go as far as you want on this trail, but the best waterfalls are the last two. It’s definitely a great option if you and your pup want to cool off on a humid day. Since this trail is pup-friendly though, it’s definitely not the only one in the park. Dogs are allowed on most trails in Shenandoah as long as they’re kept on a leash no longer than 6 feet. As with any National Park, though, make sure that you respect wildlife, and do keep your pups off of trails that have heavy wildlife traffic like Old Rag. This is a larger national park, so give yourself plenty of time to explore!

Shenandoah National Park, VA

Shenandoah National Park, VA

Acadia National Park, Maine

I was surprised to learn that Maine’s beautiful Acadia National Park is dog friendly! I’d already fallen head over heels for this perfect combination of pine trees and Atlantic Ocean, so knowing that one day I can return with my future best friend makes me so happy. Acadia is known for its ocean access, but it also has over 100 miles of dog friendly trails where pups are allowed on leashes no longer than 6 feet. The only place you can’t camp with your dog in Acadia is Isle Au Haut and Duck Harbot, but dogs are allowed in the other campgrounds run by the NPS here in Acadia. While Acadia is known for its beaches, dogs are unfortunately not allowed on Sand Beach, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t plenty of dog friendly ocean access in this island park.

Acadia National Park, ME

Acadia National Park, ME

North Cascades National Park, WA

This is easily the most dog friendly National Park I’ve been to. It simply hasn’t changed the rules for the areas that are National Park land because it’s so interspersed with National Forest land, which is run by the USDA, instead of the NPS. Because of that, dogs are allowed on most trails here, and I saw at least three during my little walk in the woods out to Thunder Creek, a longer trail that you can follow to a number of peaks, depending on how many miles you feel like putting in. The most popular peak on this trail lies at only 1.5 miles and ends at a glacial river which you and your dog are welcome to splash around in.

Read more about North Cascades HERE!

North Cascades National Park, WA

North Cascades National Park, WA

Surprising places in other parks:

·       Rialto Beach in Olympic National Park, WA

·       Various spots in Theodore Roosevelt National Park, ND

·       Mirror Lake Loop, Yosemite National Park, CA

It’s also important to mention that as these are National Parks, it’s important to adhere to “no dog” rules. If a trail says dogs aren’t allowed, they’re not trying to control you, it’s simply for the safety of your dog and other animals. Make sure you perform tick checks after taking your dog on any of these trails, and bring plenty of water for them on any hike you decide to do. Most importantly, have fun, and get ready for a wagging tail when your dog realizes he gets to come with you.


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The Most Unexpected Bucket List Landscapes in the US

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Let’s just get one thing out on the table: the US is huge. Because of its size, this one country is home to tons of crazy landscapes, from the tundra of Alaska (which is still on my list) to the volcanoes of Hawaii. Really, the US is home to some incredible, insane, unexpected landscapes you can’t find anywhere else. These are worlds you might think you’d find way up in Canada’s Northern Territories, in the deserts of Africa, or even, maybe, an alien planet?

Here are the most unexpected destinations in the US, which you should probably add to that bucket list after you’re done reading this.

(Disclaimer: 100% of these spots are run by the National Park Service. There’s a reason these spots are protected land, so please, if you visit, make sure you keep them as pretty as when you arrived).

Glacier National Park, Montana

Glacier National Park, Montana

Devils Tower National Monument, Wyoming

I know I’ve talked about it on the blog before, but it’s such a cool place, it can’t not make this list (don’t worry, it’s the only repeat destination on here). Devils Tower is truly one of a kind. It’s the only rock formation like this in the world and attracts huge numbers of rock climbers, hikers, and sightseers to its park every year. Devils Tower is a sacred place for Native Americans, and you might see prayer flags as you hike around the park, especially close to the tower. This is also a great place to see wildlife (especially prairie dogs), as this part of Wyoming is right where the pine forests of this mountain state and the grasslands of the neighboring Dakotas meet. And, if you want to visit Devils Tower and the Badlands in one go, they’re not too far from each other!

Read more about Devils Tower HERE!

Devils Tower National Monument, Wyoming

Devils Tower National Monument, Wyoming

Bryce Canyon National Park, Utah

Okay, I know Utah’s other National Parks are a bit more famous, but Bryce is absolutely mind-blowing. Bryce Canyon is known for its hoodoos—the strange rock formations that visitors describe as looking like either people or sandcastles (or both!). Advanced hikers have the chance to hike down into the hoodoos and experience them up close, but even if you don’t trust your hiking ability, there are plenty of fantastic views from the rim! This is one of the most unique desert landscapes out there, and is the largest collection of hoodoos in the world. They’re formed through a combination of plate tectonics, sediment deposition, and erosion, and their bright orange color lets them form a truly alien landscape.

Bryce Canyon National Park, Utah

Bryce Canyon National Park, Utah

Hoh Rainforest, Olympic National Park, Washington

While there are a couple temperate rainforests in the United States, the Hoh Rainforest in Washington’s Olympic National Park is the only temperate rainforest you can actually drive your car into. Complete with a campground, tons of interesting wildlife, and scattered rainstorms, this is truly a landscape to escape to. It honestly feels like you’re in a different country (or maybe the world of Jurassic Park?), and the temperature ranges from hot and humid to freezing cold in the winter. Located in the Pacific Northwest, it’s clear that this is a place that stands out amongst the surrounding mountains, coastline, and big cities.

Hoh Rainforest, Olympic National Park, Washington

Hoh Rainforest, Olympic National Park, Washington

Haleakala National Park, Maui, Hawaii

Haleakala National Park literally looks like Mars. This was actually the first National Park I ever visited, and needless to say, I was blown away. From the long winding drive up the dormant volcano to the vast, red landscapes that feel like they don’t belong on the lush, green island of Maui, Haleakala is a landscape you truly can’t find anywhere else in the US, and perhaps nowhere else in the world. Haleakala is known for its sunrises, and often, tourists will take a bike tour to ride down the mountain just as the sun comes up over the Hawaiian horizon.

Haleakala National Park, Maui, Hawaii (photo “vintage” circa 2012)

Haleakala National Park, Maui, Hawaii (photo “vintage” circa 2012)

Glacier National Park, Montana

 Glacier National Park is hands down, my favorite place I’ve ever visited. This alpine landscape definitely deserves to be on this list as one of the most unexpected places in the US, simply because it’s not a landscape that you’d generally find this far south. Although many of the Glaciers are now melted, there are still a few that stand which are accessible by hiking trails. I wouldn’t recommend hiking to the glacial views, though, unless you’re an advanced hiker, as the trails that allow you to see the most intact Glaciers are quite long. There are accessible views of Jackson Glacier, though, along the Going to the Sun Road. The Going to the Sun Road offers some of the most beautiful views in the country (although it is often closed November through May), and is only accessible to vehicles less than 21 feet long.

There are three sections of Glacier: East Glacier, which is at a higher elevation and offers great views of St. Mary Lake and some of the first views of these incredible mountains, West Glacier, which is tucked away in the woods and close to the adorable town of Whitefish, and Many Glacier, which is where much of the glacial access is hiding, including the famous Grinnell Glacier trail.

I could go on about Glacier forever, but for now, it should definitely be added to your summer bucket list. It does get crowded, so get there early for a campsite, and plan on taking the shuttle around the park if you can to reduce car traffic. Most importantly, though, in this remote National Park, make sure that you respect wildlife—it’s everywhere, it’s beautiful, but wildlife is wild, and should be enjoyed from a distance.

Glacier National Park, Montana

Glacier National Park, Montana

Honorable Mentions:

Badlands National Park, South Dakota

Congaree National Park, South Carolina

Mammoth Cave National Park, Kentucky

 The United States is home to an incredible array of unique landscapes. From the deserts and hoodoos of Bryce Canyon to the melting glaciers of Glacier National Park, the diversity of the country’s landscape is one that’s hard to challenge. These are five places that should absolutely be on your adventure list— they’re sure to give you the wow factor you’re looking for in a National Park, and will inspire adventures to last a lifetime.


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Why I Travel Solo

“You’re going where by yourself?”

“That must be so lonely.”

“Why on Earth would you travel solo?”

Long story short, because I love it.

In the summer of 2019, three days after I graduated university, I loaded up my Kia Soul and hit the road for three months straight, living out of the back of the car, and driving to all 48 connecting United States. (More on this in “My Journey.”)

But, it didn’t start there. This wasn’t a spontaneous decision, although a lot of the decisions I made while on the road were. This trip was brewing for a long time, and the thing that sparked it the most was my Horrible Year of 2018. But of course, one bad year isn’t the reason I travel solo, it’s just a big part of why I hit the road at all. Traveling solo to me is an empowering experience, and a liberating one. As a solo female traveler, the road is a strange place to reside, but it feels like home now, and I don’t know if I would feel that way if I’d never made the decision to go it alone.

Bryce Canyon National Park, UT

Bryce Canyon National Park, UT

I got tons of questions when I was on the road. One conversation I remember vividly happened at a private campground in Indiana that I ended up at because the National Park didn’t have a spot for me. The owner of the campground had talked to his wife who’d checked me in, and came up to me while I was making dinner, asking “You’re going all the way to Mammoth Cave by yourself? That doesn’t seem very safe.” By this time, I’d been on the road for two months and very much knew what I was doing. The solo thing didn’t feel strange to me, but it dawned on me that it was probably very strange to other people.

Mount Rainier National Park, WA

Mount Rainier National Park, WA

There are a ton of reasons I travel solo, and if you ask any solo female traveler their reasons, they might have some of the same ones as me, and some completely different ones, but the fact is, solo travel is an experience that’s unique to the person doing it.

First and foremost, solo travel is incredibly liberating. Have you ever been on a trip with someone and spent the entire time worrying about whether or not the other person is having a good time? Maybe you spend the whole trip just doing things they want to do so that you can sidestep any guilt you might have if you pick a spot and they hate it? Yeah, me too.

Traveling with friends can be great, truly it can. But for the long stretches of time that I like to go for, it’s an incredibly liberating feeling to be able to make all your decisions for yourself without another person to worry about.

Glacier National Park, MT

Glacier National Park, MT

When you don’t have another person with you, you’re able to learn more: about yourself, about life, about the world. I had to do things on the road I never would’ve experienced had I not been alone. I had to troubleshoot and make decisions on my own and listen to my gut more than I ever would’ve with a partner, and for that, I’m super grateful.

Solo travel allowed me to figure out parts of myself I think I was missing after that Horrible 2018 and allowed me to fall in love with this nomadic lifestyle. Being kinetic is something that felt so right to me, as if to say “no wonder you felt so stuck when you were in school! You’re meant to be moving!” And I never would’ve found that little bit of my soul—my wandering soul—had I not been alone.

Hoh Rainforest, Olympic National Park, WA

Hoh Rainforest, Olympic National Park, WA

Now, you’re probably wondering: what possibly could’ve happened in 2018 that prompted her to take off around the country by herself for 3 months with an insane goal? Plenty. Plenty happened.

2018 started with my dog passing away unexpectedly. A few months later, the last summer break I’d ever have started off with a breakup with someone I never should’ve been in a relationship with in the first place, and then a few months after that, I started one of the most physically and emotionally demanding jobs I’ve ever worked. And a slew of other things.

If you’ve read My Journey, then you’ll know that the trip that started it all had been in the back of my head for about 5 years before I actually left on it. And it was at the beginning of that summer of 2018 that I decided I was going to do it alone, and in a year, instead of waiting any longer.

Congaree National Park, SC

Congaree National Park, SC

And when I did finally do it, I experienced some of the most beautiful places of my life. From the hot Valley of Fire State Park in Nevada, to the swamps of Congaree National Park in South Carolina, to the icy cold of Glacier National Park in Montana, I’ve gotten to see some of the most unreal landscapes in the country, and all because I made a decision for myself to prioritize my own happiness.

Just the prospect of traveling alone was an act of stepping out of my comfort zone, and that in itself was one of the most empowering decisions I ever made.

Shenandoah National Park, WV

Shenandoah National Park, WV

Traveling alone can be scary. It can be stressful. It can be lonely. But despite what plenty of people told me before I left, I never once felt unsafe, and the reason for that is that I listened to my gut about everything I did. If you trust yourself, solo travel can be a freeing experience, rather than one of mystery and the danger everyone projected onto me prior to leaving. Solo travel is scary in the way that any new experience is, making you so aware and present of everything happening around you, in the best way.

So, if you haven’t traveled alone, or haven’t even thought of traveling alone, this is for you: make that first move. Hit the road, book the flight, choose your first destination. The world is waiting to show you what you’ve had hiding inside you all along.